Merry Christmas!!
Christmas Eve was good. I spent it with my family and Alex at my grandparents house where I have spent it almost every Christmas since I was born. We ate, laughed, opened presents and just had fun. Christmas is definitely one of my favorite holidays!
Now for Christmas Day, we went back to my grandparents house and had the traditional Christmas dinner then headed to Stafford to his parents and had another dinner there. I didn't eat much but it was better than Thanksgiving because it was just his parents and brother. His other family members weren't there to give me nasty looks and make me feel uncomfortable and unwelcome.
His mother gave us some stuff for the baby and the fifth season of Dexter.
Until next year...
Monday, December 26, 2011
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Hello, baby Headley!
Just a quick update on baby Aubrey.
I had an ultrasound today and she is measuring two weeks ahead. My little chunk! But everything is still looking good.
Saying hello again!
I had an ultrasound today and she is measuring two weeks ahead. My little chunk! But everything is still looking good.
Monday, December 5, 2011
To the hospital... oh joy!
Alex and I decided to go see his grandmother in Christiansburg for the weekend because he hadn't seen her in a while. We went down there on a Friday and we were going to leave on a Sunday but then found out Alex had off so we decided to stay an extra day. We ate out a lot that weekend and went shopping so all and all it was a good weekend until Sunday night.
On Sunday night we were watching a movie and I got what seemed to be indigestion but it kept getting worse. A couple of hours later it really hurt so I decided to take some tums and lie down but that made it worse. Fifteen minutes later I was on the bathroom floor and crying because I was in so much pain. I felt like I was having a heart attack and couldn't breathe. I also kept vomiting and just could not catch my breath no matter what I did. Alex called an ambulance but after I had vomited I felt better so he called them and said nevermind. Twenty minutes later it happened again and this time we went straight to the hospital.
His grandmother said she thought it was my gallbladder but the hospital didn't even check that out. They hooked me up to the monitor to check on baby Aubrey and took a sample of my pee to check for Preeclampsia which came back fine. So I was sent home not knowing what had happened. I just hope it doesn't happen again.
On Sunday night we were watching a movie and I got what seemed to be indigestion but it kept getting worse. A couple of hours later it really hurt so I decided to take some tums and lie down but that made it worse. Fifteen minutes later I was on the bathroom floor and crying because I was in so much pain. I felt like I was having a heart attack and couldn't breathe. I also kept vomiting and just could not catch my breath no matter what I did. Alex called an ambulance but after I had vomited I felt better so he called them and said nevermind. Twenty minutes later it happened again and this time we went straight to the hospital.
His grandmother said she thought it was my gallbladder but the hospital didn't even check that out. They hooked me up to the monitor to check on baby Aubrey and took a sample of my pee to check for Preeclampsia which came back fine. So I was sent home not knowing what had happened. I just hope it doesn't happen again.
Friday, November 25, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving!!
Well, not so happy for me. Although I did see my family and have a good time it wasn't a typical Thanksgiving for me. It was my first Thanksgiving I have been pregnant and I was really hoping and getting excited about pigging out. Boy was I wrong on two different counts.
One: I could not pig out because being 8 months pregnant my body does not like that. If I eat too much I get sick. Not to mention that oh so awesome morning sickness had come back.
And...
Two: I had my 3 hour glucose test a couple of days before and would receive the results until next week so I had to be cautious just in case I did have gestational diabetes. It was unlikely that I would have gestational diabetes because I only failed my one hour by a couple of points but just to be safe I didn't eat too much.
After we saw my family we went to see Alex's family and I did not eat anything there but of course Alex did. It was so awkward for me. They all stared at me like I had five heads and acted like they didn't want me there. I couldn't get out of there fast enough. At least it's done... until Christmas that is.
Well, not so happy for me. Although I did see my family and have a good time it wasn't a typical Thanksgiving for me. It was my first Thanksgiving I have been pregnant and I was really hoping and getting excited about pigging out. Boy was I wrong on two different counts.
One: I could not pig out because being 8 months pregnant my body does not like that. If I eat too much I get sick. Not to mention that oh so awesome morning sickness had come back.
And...
Two: I had my 3 hour glucose test a couple of days before and would receive the results until next week so I had to be cautious just in case I did have gestational diabetes. It was unlikely that I would have gestational diabetes because I only failed my one hour by a couple of points but just to be safe I didn't eat too much.
After we saw my family we went to see Alex's family and I did not eat anything there but of course Alex did. It was so awkward for me. They all stared at me like I had five heads and acted like they didn't want me there. I couldn't get out of there fast enough. At least it's done... until Christmas that is.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Happy Halloween!
Happy Halloween!!
Today Alex and I got married. I know what you are probably thinking. You're thinking, "Did she say married? On Halloween? Who does that?" This girl! I have always loved Halloween and the fall so getting married today was perfect and even more perfect that I actually married someone who agreed to marry me on Halloween.
It was a short ceremony probably less than 20 minutes. Just a quick, "I do," ring exchange and a kiss. That's how I wanted it. I've never been the wedding type of girl. I didn't see the point in planning something so huge that would last not even a full night and ultimately leave you practically broke in the end. I just wanted to get married and it didn't really matter how small it was.
I originally just wanted it to be Alex and myself in a private little ceremony but Alex being Alex had to invite his parents and grandfather so that led to me having to invite my Mom and her husband, my sister and her husband and my niece. It was on a Monday so only a few select people could come to begin with.
After the ceremony we went out to eat. We had the typical tradition of cutting the cake and smashing it in each others faces. Alex even got it up my nose and the owner's looked at us horrified because of the mess we made.
Once we left the restaurant we began our honeymoon which was also our babymoon. Nothing fancy, just me and him staying overnight together. We had a little scare which led to a quick trip to the emergency room where I was told everything was fine, I was just a little irritated from doing too much... you know. :X
Not the traditional type of wedding.
We look happy. Well, I look high but happy nonetheless.
Cutting the cake.
CAKE SMASH!!
Today Alex and I got married. I know what you are probably thinking. You're thinking, "Did she say married? On Halloween? Who does that?" This girl! I have always loved Halloween and the fall so getting married today was perfect and even more perfect that I actually married someone who agreed to marry me on Halloween.
It was a short ceremony probably less than 20 minutes. Just a quick, "I do," ring exchange and a kiss. That's how I wanted it. I've never been the wedding type of girl. I didn't see the point in planning something so huge that would last not even a full night and ultimately leave you practically broke in the end. I just wanted to get married and it didn't really matter how small it was.
I originally just wanted it to be Alex and myself in a private little ceremony but Alex being Alex had to invite his parents and grandfather so that led to me having to invite my Mom and her husband, my sister and her husband and my niece. It was on a Monday so only a few select people could come to begin with.
After the ceremony we went out to eat. We had the typical tradition of cutting the cake and smashing it in each others faces. Alex even got it up my nose and the owner's looked at us horrified because of the mess we made.
Once we left the restaurant we began our honeymoon which was also our babymoon. Nothing fancy, just me and him staying overnight together. We had a little scare which led to a quick trip to the emergency room where I was told everything was fine, I was just a little irritated from doing too much... you know. :X
Monday, October 17, 2011
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
It's a girl!
Today was our BIG ultrasound. Before we headed to the doctor's we went by the courthouse and got our marriage license. It's crazy to think that in less than a month we will be married. I am so excited yet nervous.
Today we really got to see the baby and find out what we are having. I am thrilled to announce we are having a little girl! Alex seemed a little bummed when the tech said girl but I think he got over it quickly.
Everything looked good and the tech said she got a clear shot to see the gender. We even got some really cute shots like her sucking her little thumb. I really wanted a girl and something told me from the beginning that she was in fact a she. We are going to name her Aubrey Harper. Time to shop for pink and purple. [:
After the ultrasound Alex and I made it a day by going to the jewelry store and buying our wedding bands for our upcoming Halloween wedding. He even surprised me with an engagement ring. When he asked me he didn't have one and I told him I didn't need one but because he does love me so much he bought one. So sweet!
Sucking her thumb. So cute!
Just hanging out.
Saying Hey!
Little button nose. [:
Today we really got to see the baby and find out what we are having. I am thrilled to announce we are having a little girl! Alex seemed a little bummed when the tech said girl but I think he got over it quickly.
Everything looked good and the tech said she got a clear shot to see the gender. We even got some really cute shots like her sucking her little thumb. I really wanted a girl and something told me from the beginning that she was in fact a she. We are going to name her Aubrey Harper. Time to shop for pink and purple. [:
After the ultrasound Alex and I made it a day by going to the jewelry store and buying our wedding bands for our upcoming Halloween wedding. He even surprised me with an engagement ring. When he asked me he didn't have one and I told him I didn't need one but because he does love me so much he bought one. So sweet!
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Anxiety strikes!
I'm five months pregnant with my first baby and that terrifies me. I keep thinking something is going to go wrong because nothing is perfect. My life has always been difficult and I know with a baby it will be harder but it's the only really good thing in my life and I want it more than anything. I keep reading or even seeing women who have had babies with so many problems and my newest fear is trisomy 18. It's scary to think this could happen. I know I am healthy and all of my ultrasounds have looked great and the heartbeat has been perfect but I can't stop thinking about defects.
I have always been a hypochondriac and now I have another life to worry about. I worry more about my unborn baby lately than I do about myself. I guess that's natural but it's also incredibly stressful and I know no one wants to hear a list of my fears every day. I know I need to think optimistic and realize I am otherwise a healthy individual but I always have the "what if" thought in the back of my mind. I seriously could not handle someone telling me something is wrong with my baby.
I had blood taken about a week ago at my OB appointment and they have yet to call me to tell me if everything is OK which makes me more concerned. It makes me think they're waiting until my next appointment to give me the bad news. I hate this helpless feeling. I seriously already feel like something is wrong and if it is, then it's all my fault. I just want everything to be OK. I know that's all any mother wants but I genuinely mean it. I wish it was February already and I knew everything was alright.
I have always been a hypochondriac and now I have another life to worry about. I worry more about my unborn baby lately than I do about myself. I guess that's natural but it's also incredibly stressful and I know no one wants to hear a list of my fears every day. I know I need to think optimistic and realize I am otherwise a healthy individual but I always have the "what if" thought in the back of my mind. I seriously could not handle someone telling me something is wrong with my baby.
I had blood taken about a week ago at my OB appointment and they have yet to call me to tell me if everything is OK which makes me more concerned. It makes me think they're waiting until my next appointment to give me the bad news. I hate this helpless feeling. I seriously already feel like something is wrong and if it is, then it's all my fault. I just want everything to be OK. I know that's all any mother wants but I genuinely mean it. I wish it was February already and I knew everything was alright.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Happy Birthday to me!
I am 18 weeks pregnant today exactly and felt the baby move for the first time. It is also my 24th birthday. What a great birthday gift!
I had a pretty relaxing birthday. I had some pizza and my Mom bought me a cake.
24... sigh. I'm getting up there I guess.
I had a pretty relaxing birthday. I had some pizza and my Mom bought me a cake.
24... sigh. I'm getting up there I guess.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Holy Earthquake!
HOLY EARTHQUAKE BATMAN!
We totally just had an earthquake. An earthquake in Virginia? Seriously?
The news said the epicenter was in Mineral, VA which is not far and the magnitude was 5.8. Crazy!
We totally just had an earthquake. An earthquake in Virginia? Seriously?
The news said the epicenter was in Mineral, VA which is not far and the magnitude was 5.8. Crazy!
Monday, August 22, 2011
Alex moves in
Today Alex moved in. His parent have been so ridiculous about him coming over every weekend to see me so they asked him to leave. He willingly left of course because he didn't really want to be there anyways. They were basically trying to make him choose me or them.
I went with him to get his stuff and his Mom had apparently taken a day off from work so she could confront him when he came. I guess she wasn't expecting me to be there because she came running out of the house, yelling at me and then threw his pills at me. She basically implied that he couldn't make it without them because he's bi-polar. They asked him to leave and then rip me a new one.
Now he's with me and it's so new. I was so used to seeing him every weekend and now I get to see him every day. I guess it works out since I'm pregnant and we wanted to get married in the fall.
On a happier note my doctor's office called and said my blood work looked fine from my First Trimester Screen so my risk for having a baby with Down Syndrome is low.
I went with him to get his stuff and his Mom had apparently taken a day off from work so she could confront him when he came. I guess she wasn't expecting me to be there because she came running out of the house, yelling at me and then threw his pills at me. She basically implied that he couldn't make it without them because he's bi-polar. They asked him to leave and then rip me a new one.
Now he's with me and it's so new. I was so used to seeing him every weekend and now I get to see him every day. I guess it works out since I'm pregnant and we wanted to get married in the fall.
On a happier note my doctor's office called and said my blood work looked fine from my First Trimester Screen so my risk for having a baby with Down Syndrome is low.
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
First Trimester Screen
Today I had my First Trimester Screen for Down Syndrome. It wasn't too bad. I waited in a waiting room for what seemed to be forever and then was called back by the rudest ultrasound tech ever! She acted like she hated her job and didn't seem to even care about what she was doing. The printout she gave us of the baby was so horrible it didn't even look like a baby. It looked more like an acorn sitting on a rock. I was so disappointed. After the ultrasound I went to the lab and had some blood drawn so they could check all of my levels out. I'll find out in a couple of weeks the result but everything seemed to look good.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Introducing Baby Headley
Well, today was the day! [: I went to my official OB appointment and had my first ultrasound. Everything looked fine and the baby looked as if he or she were dancing around and even waving. It looks like it may have Alex's head. I have another appointment on August 9th for the First Trimester Screen.
Introducing Baby Headley:
Introducing Baby Headley:
Thursday, July 7, 2011
First OB visit
I had my first OB appointment today and all I can say is, it's definitely not worth a blog post as bad as that sounds. I have waited almost a month just to go in for less than 20 minutes for them to get some information about myself and Alex, take some blood and set up my first ultrasound with Dr. Young in two weeks. Yes, TWO not ONE but TWO weeks. I am so disappointed. I was so excited and now I have to wait AGAIN!
Until next time...
Until next time...
Monday, June 27, 2011
Anxiety here we go!
What a crazy week it has been! Last Monday I went for a small walk and noticed I had started spotting. It didn't really phase me because I thought it was just normal pregnancy symptoms. I decided to walk home just to be safe. By the time I had gotten home it had started to get heavy and I thought for sure I was having a miscarriage. I did not think this would happen and I was so upset. I called Alex, who was on his way home after another one of our weekends, and told him that I was pretty sure that was what was going on.
Alex came back and we went to the emergency room. They took some blood to test my HCG levels and did an ultrasound. There was a yolk sac and that seemed to be a good sign bu that was it. My HCG levels were right on target so they told me to wait a few days and test them again at my doctor's office. I played the waiting game to see what would happen and by Thursday which was Alex's birthday I decided I needed to get my HCG levels checked to see what was going on, so I did. What an awesome birthday gift... NOT! We did not receive the results until today and I had basically prepared myself for the worst. When my doctor called me she told me that my HCG levels were still going up and that I was not miscarrying. I was so happy and hearing that was so unexpected.
I have my first appointment on July 7th. I can't wait!
Alex came back and we went to the emergency room. They took some blood to test my HCG levels and did an ultrasound. There was a yolk sac and that seemed to be a good sign bu that was it. My HCG levels were right on target so they told me to wait a few days and test them again at my doctor's office. I played the waiting game to see what would happen and by Thursday which was Alex's birthday I decided I needed to get my HCG levels checked to see what was going on, so I did. What an awesome birthday gift... NOT! We did not receive the results until today and I had basically prepared myself for the worst. When my doctor called me she told me that my HCG levels were still going up and that I was not miscarrying. I was so happy and hearing that was so unexpected.
I have my first appointment on July 7th. I can't wait!
Friday, June 10, 2011
Oh, baby!
Positive thoughts, please! [:
I have been feeling really weird lately and today I finally put two and two together and took a home pregnancy test, which was really convenient because I actually had a doctor's appointment today and while there I confirmed what was about to come.
I have been on this weight loss kick because I am obviously not happy with my body. I always say if only I could get back to my high school size which was a size 11. I remember in high school being that size and everyone telling me how thin I was but all I could think was that I was still fat and needed to lose weight. If I could go back in time I would smack myself because I would kill to be that size again.
Anyways...
I have been going for walks almost every day and going for about an hour at a time and for the past few days I have always had to cut it short and come home early because I would feel so nauseous. I would come home, lay on the couch and drink water until I was cooled down and still feel the urge to become sick. I basically shrugged it off as the heat until this morning.
This morning I woke up feeling like I needed to run to the bathroom and suddenly it hit me. My boyfriend was over for his usual weekend slumber party and I just thought, "Maybe I am pregnant." For whatever reason, despite going to the bathroom to see if I would truly get sick I did not use the bathroom so I still had that delightful morning pee in me. I had an emergency pregnancy test hanging around that I thought I would never use and decided to use it.
I went into the bathroom, did my business and waited. I did not have to wait long because less than ten seconds later I had my BIG FAT POSITIVE!!
I seriously didn't know what to think but I do know I was very excited and scared at the same time. I kept thinking, "Oh my God, I am pregnant" and "What if something goes wrong?" I'm such a worrier but I took it and hoped for the best.
I went to the doctor that day and sure enough she confirmed it again that I was indeed pregnant. She said I was due around February 14th, 2012. Valentine's Day. [: I always wanted a February or October baby so I could not be more excited.
I have been feeling really weird lately and today I finally put two and two together and took a home pregnancy test, which was really convenient because I actually had a doctor's appointment today and while there I confirmed what was about to come.
I have been on this weight loss kick because I am obviously not happy with my body. I always say if only I could get back to my high school size which was a size 11. I remember in high school being that size and everyone telling me how thin I was but all I could think was that I was still fat and needed to lose weight. If I could go back in time I would smack myself because I would kill to be that size again.
Anyways...
I have been going for walks almost every day and going for about an hour at a time and for the past few days I have always had to cut it short and come home early because I would feel so nauseous. I would come home, lay on the couch and drink water until I was cooled down and still feel the urge to become sick. I basically shrugged it off as the heat until this morning.
This morning I woke up feeling like I needed to run to the bathroom and suddenly it hit me. My boyfriend was over for his usual weekend slumber party and I just thought, "Maybe I am pregnant." For whatever reason, despite going to the bathroom to see if I would truly get sick I did not use the bathroom so I still had that delightful morning pee in me. I had an emergency pregnancy test hanging around that I thought I would never use and decided to use it.
I went into the bathroom, did my business and waited. I did not have to wait long because less than ten seconds later I had my BIG FAT POSITIVE!!
I seriously didn't know what to think but I do know I was very excited and scared at the same time. I kept thinking, "Oh my God, I am pregnant" and "What if something goes wrong?" I'm such a worrier but I took it and hoped for the best.
I went to the doctor that day and sure enough she confirmed it again that I was indeed pregnant. She said I was due around February 14th, 2012. Valentine's Day. [: I always wanted a February or October baby so I could not be more excited.
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